Saturday, April 28, 2007

my love for salt this morning has caused me to choke on it and ended with a itchy throat.

woke up at 7am to study and picked a few question, skipped the difficult ones and leave it to the hands of fate. kinda quite happy that i finally figured out the lump sum and per unit thing so i slept at one. guess being with my boy for quite some time, i got a little influenced. i can no longer sleep that late... gets very tired everytime around 12 plus one. sometimes even 11 plus.

who's the person we should symphatise with at this time of my life? ahaha.. i just realised it's mummy. ever since i started working and needs to wake up at 7. she wakes up with me just to prepare breakfast for me. so far, her track record is she dun go to bed till i leave the hse... except once. after preparing breakfast, she directly hit the bed once again. otherwise, she always watch tv.. until i close the door. dunn wad she do after that. and also, last night, i thought i wan to burn some oil, asked her to cook supper for me.... she cooked instant porridge and i ate one bowl.. figured out my per unit stuff and told her i m tired and i wan to sleep. ahaha.. dunno wad she do with the rest of the porridge. and this morning, she cooked breakfast for me. with dishes and all.

i think ever since i shifted home, the most times she cooked will be those before exams. ahahha.. i THINK i dun recall a time when i went to examination hall hungry and all. always well fed. ahahha.... so yes.. let's give some applause to my mum. and ideas for mummy's day! haha.... want to show her some appreciation without the usual gems and flowers. so cliche already.... ahahha

on another issue, just wanted to say i never thought things would ever become like that. when i receive the msg this morning, felt quite sad. but since things have already come to like that, i will just take it as it comes. maybe some things will change in the future? i dunno but i certianly hope so. i dun want to noe where the problem lies in.. or where did it started. those seemed not impt anymore.. cos at this point... things are already not the same. it's a fact already.

Thursday, April 26, 2007

haha.. many many foiled chocs.. i like i like. love it when u girls have a mini convo. why? cos every entry i read down, it makes me smile, laugh. and curious... wad's with the cel thing?? something to do with her ex-s? hmmm.. or her taste? we both know it's her taste tt's gone all wrong! ahahha.... now, being mean dun sound like pumpkin already right?

after all the sweet lovey-dovey period.... it's down to earth and the first thing that greet me on earth is this. i thought i was being genuine and people who knoes me should know i am genuine. maybe my sincerity is not enough? being frank and open leads to misunderstandings after misunderstandings? maybe being so used to my girlfriends, i talk without thinking cos i noe they would understand. i guess.. this is not how the way we be genuine? maybe.. we should never have start this frank.

yes.. promise not to think about it already, yes yes.. think of bridging.... ECONS ECONS ECONS.

apart from that... work is going on real fine these days. getting the hang of it. paywise is good too. if not, 1/3 of it goes to baby.. it will be best!

Sunday, April 22, 2007

i think i'm going to get this after all, if singapore really have. baby claims singapore have.... but i still prefer the other!!!

if singapore really have, like wad baby claims, then this is my first month pay reward. =) not as pretty as the one before but ok lor. settle for second best. haha..

it's gg to be a tough 3 weeks ahead. first sat.. i've my econs paper. second sat, my theory exam, organ theory... not car, then third sat, is ta paper. dun even noe why i taking it... but ya. haha.... 3 weeks of hard work. den after that, myabe cruise.. HOR AMELIA??? den since baby cannot go o holiday anymore, myabe go for some chalet. i WILL MAKE IT HAPPEN. trust me. anything's possible when we have the cash. right, baby....

told mummy i started gg churh. quite surprised she accepted it pretty quickly. =) her worries and questions and concerns happen to be mine too... which i will explore.. then answer her one by one.

due to angel's special request, i shall let in a little about my pre celebration yesterday. went aglio olio. the place is even better after the renovation and the food is goood. baby think soo too. he judges the place by their steak. i ate linguine vongule. SUPERB. haha.. and their sepcial brownie.... ahahah.. damn cool. got to try it mans. anyway... the couple beside us are actually on a blind date! half the time when baby and i are toking, we are actually listening in on their convo. i think it's damn funny la.....

after which, baby bought me this chocolates, tt looks too good to be eaten. chocos might not be my cup of tea. only angel's and baby's cup of tea... but i will eat those chocs.

it's gg to be a good week. i just noe it.
I LIKE!!! BUT SINGAPORE DON'T HAVE... =/

Wednesday, April 18, 2007

when i logged onto my blog and saw three foiled chocs, i thought angel and amelia having a mini convo again but ta-da... i see my sweet baby's message too. =)

haha.... seriously, we're over the honeymoon phase aren't we? so why do i still feel so blissed just to have u by my side and to meet you a few hours at night? actually time passes so fast, before we noe it, we're enjoying each other's company during the weekends again. monday blues... grumble.. and den weekends... ahaha.. a v short cycle. but seriously.... it makes everything feel better just to have my little breaks here and there.. and those are the days tt i get to meet u.

okok.... i m feeling very xin fu. so pardon me.

thanks ALL of you, once again, i bring a smile to bed. =) baby thank all of u all.. angel thank him back.. ahaha.. but I THANK ALL OF U GUYS!!!! U GUYS MADE MY LIFE CLOSE TO COMPLETENESS! LOVE LOVE LOVE!

date me out for lunch.... please

Tuesday, April 17, 2007

tired and all when i reached home but seeing the sunflower made me smile once more. life can actually be beautiful especially when there are things around you to remind u that someone out there cares or better still, people who reminds u they care.

take for instant friday, looking forward to lunching with jie. and sat, looking forward to spending a good time with my baby. i know we will. haha.. ever since we learnt that time is precious for the both of us, and we realyl cherish every min spent together... ahhhaha.. i hope he feels this way too. or issit just me?

all will be fine. =) even with the stupid ultra pain papercut i have.

Monday, April 16, 2007

thanks angel dearie for the flowers. they totally made my day! =) i love u!!! muacks muacks!!! i dun think nicky flavoured kiss suit u. so i give u leona's!

Sunday, April 15, 2007

weekends just come and go again. seriously, this time round, it's really very fast. was it cause time spent with the boy always seem to go by so quickly, that's why my weekends seem so short. seriously, one weekend is not enough to cover weekdays of not meeting. i m missing him already.

i really think what happened the past week certainly make us know what we want in the future and also how much we meant to each other. and most importantly, how much u value and cherish me. i suddenly realised i pale in comparison but then, i feel much happier. i feel closer to you and i also think i can love u more and more. this feels totally amazing.... it seemed that our r/s is brought to a higher level already and right now, i'm exploring this level. so far, i'm liking everything about it.

let's do this together. =)

Saturday, April 14, 2007

i'm pretty loved after all... thanks nu peng you. ahaha.. so funny, u read from here and u left me a testimonial. nonetheless... it makes me feel loved and cared for! no matter issit a simple tag or a testimonial.... i am happy.

leona's been a happy girl since thurs. wierd.. there i was grumbling on wed night and when i reached work place on thurs, i brightened up immediately. cos tt guy is back and he recovered! woah.. relief relief, first time i'm so happy to see him. to think i was cursing at him under my breath every now and then from mon to wed. but finally, work load seemed lighter. everything seemed better, in a way. and they even let me off early, like i could finally see sunset while walking out of the building and not moonlight all the time. best thing is i could meet my baby for a short while. though it was short, and he was playing his games, it just feels goood. seriously.

haven't really had a proper meet up with baby since mon. and mon's not a good day for both of us. i dun wanna go into it anymore. but i promise all will be better. =) i'm pretty positive on this one. i m missing him though i would be able to see him tmr..... ahahaha

i have a eye candy in office and baby's jealous!!! but please.. the eye candy is this woman. let's see.. she look like she's in early twenties.. maybe older than me by wad.. 3 to 4 years. sh'e drop dead gorgeous. wadever she wears looks good. her sharp nose, her mouth and bug eyes, her beautiful hair. ahahaha.. she really very pretty!! i jealous.... maybe i should seriously consider dying my hair.

i dream of a holiday and i hope it will be a dream come true!! all for hard work. =) but in short run, i just wanna see tt silly boy of mine, who's tired 24/7 and this explains why i'm online nw and he's sleeping already.

all will be well.. i noe it will be. cos with u, i'm already stronger.

Wednesday, April 11, 2007

pre warning, this is going to be a real whiny entry.. crosss this if u dun think u wanna read it.

if my life right now can be desribed as a plant, then i think i am withering. i wun die but there will be no bloom for me for the next few months coming up. i won't say time passes slowly cos it doesn't. seriously, i know before i know it, the 3 months is up. but i cannot begin to describe the pile of work that has to be done. my mentor is finally leaving today.. and den suddenly lots of things became my charge, things i know how to do, that's alright. things i do once only.. tt's errr.. i can try to figure my way out and also things i never do before like wad.. match bloomberg tics to wad....trade confos....? and wad??? i dunno.... had gastric tonight and it didn't get any better after i ate the cup noodles that i bought. my sotmach still hurts. my life is not the least bit healthy right nw.... wad with sitting in front of my desk, with my freaking ass growing bigger and late night dinners... and now worse, leading to gastric. i will be frail and brittle... and whithery... i dunno how to explain but i really feel like dying. i need nutrients... of love of concern of attention. i dun like working....... i dun like. i dun like i dun like. going back daily to a pile of docs, like that i rather i'm the one who fell ill and admitted to the hospital instead. it's tough covering two persons' job. seriously... no good lunch or nice colleagues can help. even with me trying to keep an optimistic self, refuses to go through this. i'm not born to be optimistic. so i try to be...... and this is the limit of someone who's only trying and learning.

YEAH!!!! GO AHEAD PEOPLE WHO READS THIS AND THINK I M WEAK. I AM!!!! SO WHAT!!!! NOBDY LOVES ME!!! NOBODY CARES!!!

being on the more rational side.... and this is for those who actually bother about poor dying leona, i know i will be a stronger person once i get through this. not only that, i would have made myself a not too bad resume to start things off with and also, money for licence as well as in cpf. and even this resume might not mean anything, i know what i've gained and tt's experience no money can buy. things will be fine. i know. i'll take things as they come. i guess i still have my moral support here and there. and somehow as a person who believes in signs, i know i'm being put in this for some reason and that is to make me stronger and to make me see clearer picture of wad's install for me in the future. no one said life is going to be easy..... but i guess right now, for poor poor me, support is important. utmost important. like an sms, esp at night makes things a whole lot of difference. or like calling my baby and he.aring his voice, although he dun tok much... tt makes me feel quite....

i guess he's right. or rather, everyone's right. i do think too much and always of things tt hasn't happen. and tt causes alot of unnecessary unhappiness. like i said, i put ur happiness before me and i think the only way for u to give me a perfect ten is that i stop thinking negatively.

but i question.. when i really can stop thinking negatively, what happens when my trust is broken, when lies are discovered, when all tt i believe in is actually air? i really cannot bear to put myself through the pain all over again. of trusting and then someone breaking of tt trust. i noe it will be too painful to even bear....

then again... this will not happen. this will not happen. i'll do my best, i'll be the best. at least to myself, i noe i tried, i noe i wasn't the cause of anything. i guess tt will be ok already. even if negative things were to happen in the future, i noe i was my best self and that things happen for a reason.

everything does.

okok.... pain pain go away....

still hurting

Tuesday, April 10, 2007

one big roller coaster ride for me this weekend till now in fact.. but i know or rather i hope things will become smoother.

i know if it was a choice, his power would certainly overpower mine. i know i have no right to stop people from making their choice. i know my importance. i know i might be a slight obstruction cos of my importance. i know i'm not being really nice right now. i know it might lead to strain. all these i know.

but all these are struggles i go through. call me scared, call me insecured and i will admit all of these. i'm afraid to lose u.... yet i dun deny i want to feel connected. just not the way everyone's pacing me. i sae i need time... and i really do and i wan my baby to be beside me, walking my pace.. and both of us together. it means alot to me..... i dun wanna feel abandoned.

i want to be with u.. very much and i wan us to walk through this together.. side my side. tt's wad i thought after these few days of turmoil..... haha.. all my worries and fears. tt i will lose my baby.

but i noe i wun..... =)

Sunday, April 08, 2007

i don't know where this inferiority come from suddenly. from my stupid bird brain i think. but... looking at all the pasts and the present, comparing and all.... this inferiority crept into me. =/

Saturday, April 07, 2007

woke up early in the morning to do homework. feel so unprepared. dun even know how am i going to take the paper on the 28th. i want to do well. but issit possible with so little time on hand. of course, i know it's all down to time management. yes, time management.

was watching tv this morning. everytime i come across shows losing loved ones, i always feel a pain in my chest. and i cannot help but tear. i have not experienced really losing a loved one yet but yet, i can feel the pain in me already. what's going to happen when i really do? the pain would be ten times as painful, ten times as excruciating, i bet. looking at such stuff, i feel that feelings of jealousy, insecurity and anger seemed so small in comparison. they seemed so minor. they seemed so unimportant. why bother to let jealousy get in your way or insecurity sour the relationship and even anger cloud your vision or make you say things you dun mean it. when all these negativity will go only cause u to hurt ur loved ones when they are still living. what's going to happen when the leave us? won't jealousy, insecurity and anger just makes u regret that u did not love them more, u did not appreciate them and that's when tears wun even revive them and that all that could be done is left as a regret.

so when they are still living and categorised as loved ones, we love them like they should be love, tell them how much we appreciate them, let them know u care and that u treasure what kind of r/s u guys are sharing. cos there might never be a tmr or next time. what's important is always now.

ever since quite some time ago, trust is something i find it hard to have. and i know trust is a rather important thing as a person who wants to communicate better with people around. and this problem is always getting in my way, always letting people misinterpret, misunderstand me. and most importantly, hurt those around me. but would my trust be broken again? i dunno if i can ever take anotehr blow. but i guess in life, we're always taking the risks, aren't we?

but i'm still scared i guess. ultimately, i'm still the small little me inside.

was watching another show. it says about i modern days, divorce cases is getting more and more. okok.. we all noe it's the norm. but they question, issit cos temptations outside is increasing? or issit cos there's not much understanding of each other before they enter marraige, issit the lack of communications? what exactly it is? will i ever get answer. sometimes, trying to build relationships between people can be tough. cos wad's right or wad's wrong is not decided by only one party.

hahaha.. random thoughts from watching too much tv. got to go get ready for classes and shopping later!
i'm a happy girl today. genuinely happy despite the sucky work i have. seriously, after 7 days of work, i realised that work is either for males and females who are single or females whose boyfriends are in the army. ahaha.... seriously, no attached guys' gfs can stand it. girls will always be girls. unless the girls themselves hanky panky outside. then of course they dun mind their bfs slogging their guys out to make money for them to spend. but ya.... work is that bad. mainly cos baby gets to finish at 5:30!!! and i dun!!!

nonetheless.. i m happy today. despite a few hiccups. but i'm happy. =) happy with a spained lg. but still overall happy. =)

Sunday, April 01, 2007

why oh why did this weekend pass so quickly?? i didn't even have 2 proper days of holidays!!!! like half of sat was taken up by bridging econs class already... so why oh why did one and a half days of holidays pass so quickly!!! it pass soo much quicker than 3 days of work. these one and a half days pass by like 3 hous of the 3 days at work.

now i knoe why people got monday blues!! i am gg to be soo blue tmr and it really doesn't help knowing i'm supposed to spend the entrie day with my baby tmr. my babbbyyy my babbbby.. i dun want to work. dun wan to work dun want to work. leona is gg to turn blue tmr.. turn blue tmr.. PLEASE GIVE ME GOOD FRIDAY HOLIDAY GOD.. oh PLEASE!!!!

ahahahha. all this hard work.. for my car licence... and that new phone.....

OH anyway.. i hope my boy likes wadever i gave him..... and enjoy himself today. may i be able to celebrate ur many many mnay birthdays coming down your way.