And yes, things are finally falling in place. But not my blog. Somehow, i cannot seem to do up a nice background. In this way, i lost alot of things, like my pictures, and those links to others' webpages. Importantly, there is no place for anyone to leave comments. Not that anyone has been leaving me any comments lately. But i am positive. I rather have a place for others to leave comments than not to have it at all.

Throughout this whole month of early wedding planning, i learn a great deal about what it is to be as a couple. for a start, woman are the ones who fantasize, who has a dream wedding since young and who has lots of ideals and want everything perfect. guys on the other hand are more practical. money is one of the crucial factor they look at and then they weigh all other factors below $$$. At the same time, they also wanna please their wifes to be. So actually, they have a pretty tough job in controlling the expenses. I believe alot of man out there just let their wives spend in whatever way they want for the wedding. After all, they love their wives and also they want to give her the best day of her life. Since she is only going to marry once. It is like a gift.

as a young couple ourselves, we kinda started from scratch saving for the wedding. with more savings coming from the boy. being his usual self in the past, he would ask me to forgo the wedding and just fly somewhere secluded and marry, our own world. of course that did appeal to me. however, i wanna share the joy with everyone i know. i wanna be a pretty bride for a day, with lots of pictures to show for it. importantly, i want those i love to witness me marry and be happy for me. Not counting the fact that, my parents only have me as a daughter. so certain traditions and customs cannot be spared.

i always wanted a beach wedding. however, there are so many considerations. i learnt that not everytime whatever you want, you can have. you simply have too much to consider. it is not just about yourselves. and having chosen decemeber as the wedding month, i have to consider the weather as well. i heard on the wedding day, things can go wrong no matter how perfectly you plan. i don't wanna add on my troubles by worrying whether rain or not. so going through this whole month, we learnt to give and take, i learnt to compromise in a practical way. i learnt that wedding is just the start to our marriage and i don't want to start it by not learning how to plan a wedding together.

all in all, we are very happy with our decision. in fact, i feel both of us has a say to it. and that is how it should be. both liking it and it is our decision. =) =)