with the financial turmoil in the society, there's still a large problem exisitng. for some reason, i keep seeing talk shows online relating to more and more singles choosing not to marry, not to give birth or cannot even find the right partner.

a few weeks before, it's a documentary on why singles cannot find each other and their expectations as well as married couple not wanting to give birth. last week or something, i saw news that some association organised a "match-making" session where parents come forth and bring pictures of their own children to show one another. This i thought is a little absurb. then this week i saw another talk show about Dating agency coming in to help and more discussion why singles are not meeting one another. i think there's a woman talk show coming up on channel u? and the first topic they started on is woman not wanting to get married or give birth.

well well well, is it that difficult to find a partner nowadays? i think maybe at our age now, no one actually worries about that and also maybe in 10 years time, this problem will not exist anymore. but why is everyone finding it hard to find partners? from the talk show, i heard some woman who works in financial sector.. working envirnoment could be all female and working till wee hours. when weekends come, they will ask good friends out to chill and all. no time to socialise. wad abt the guys? i think they think singapore girls are hard to maintain or something? or they think singapore girls expect too much. yes, this is all true but don't guys grow with the society? do they expect their girls to be like woman of the past? woman in the 60s? stay @ home and wait for their husbands to come back?

i think as the society progressed, people's mindset changes and people progressed. maybe the ladies progressed further cos they want to grow out of being a housewife or staying @ home. they want their career and they strive to achieve more. and man out there, their mindsets progressed but just not as far? is that it?

hmmmm.. i'm really learning to cherish the guy with me right now, not cos i scared i can't find any other people. more of r/s is really difficult to start. firstly, it's difficult to meet that one person in the world big city. den it's even difficult to actually love someone.. and much more difficult that that someone loves you back. so when the probability is soo small, why don't i cherish the one i love with me.